Every year I ask my daughters to give me a small Christmas list. They’re both in their early twenties and even though they’re easy to shop for, I like to get a couple specific ideas.
I opened Talee’s email and clicked on the first link. It led me to the bracelet pictured above.
I smiled. It warmed my heart. She believed she could, so she did. What a strong message. It says a lot to me that Talee picked this out for herself.
I’m sure she thinks it’s cute because of the slim design, the rose gold, and the ‘girl power’ mantra. I do too. But it also reminds me how far Talee has come.
Maybe I’m reading more into it than I should, but here’s what goes through my mind:
- My little Talee, painfully shy with terrible separation anxiety in preschool. She used to hold onto my legs and say, “Mommy, I’m scared.” When I asked what she was afraid of, she’d shrug and tell me she didn’t know. I desperately wanted her to be confident and speak up for herself. As she got older, an amazing thing happened. She became sure of herself, walking tall and proud, talking to people with direct eye contact. She’s grown into a happy, confident, and outgoing young woman, graduating from college in six more months. She believed she could, so she did.
- My little Talee, with sports induced asthma so severe, I thought she’d have to give up her passion — basketball. But I don’t think quitting her favorite sport ever entered her mind. She never, ever gave up.Through determination and hard work, she became one of the most valuable players on her high school basketball team. She still plays intramural tournaments in college. She believed she could, so she did.
- My little Talee, dealing with anxiety and panic attacks when she was just ten years old. She was frightened, embarrassed, and frustrated that she couldn’t make it go away. After having a panic episode one day in fourth grade, she was terrified it would happen again. Her fear caused her to miss several weeks of school. With medical help, she learned how to control her panic. It wasn’t easy and took time. She persevered and is stronger because of it. Panic no longer rules her. Talee is the one in control. She believed she could, so she did.
It’s funny how one small Christmas gift has so much significance for me. I know Talee would laugh if she knew that, and tell me I overthink things way too much.
Maybe I’ll buy three bracelets.
Mackenzie would also love one. With tenacity and courage, she’s carved a successful path for her career, one she’s dreamed of since high school. She believed she could, so she did.
When I wear mine, it’ll remind me to continue reaching for my hopes and dreams. And I’ll think of my strong, beautiful daughters.
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Second image courtesy of here
Reblogged this on O LADO ESCURO DA LUA.
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Thanks for the reblog!
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What a beautiful message! It was so heartwarming to read about how your Talee overcame challenges in her life and has grown into a strong young woman!
❤ Alana
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Thank you! Proud momma 😊 I appreciate your kind words!
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You sound like you have amazing young women for daughters. I have a feeling they have had a great example in their mom :).
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Aw, you are really sweet! Made my day💜
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Beautiful 😊
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Thank you!
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A wonderful heartfelt gift for your daughters. No doubt they will treasure their beautiful bracelets surrounded by so much love. 🙂
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Thank you so much. I hope they love them… I’m sure they will!
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I love it. 🙂 You’re going to have two very happy daughters. 🙂
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Aw, thanks!! I think so too 🙂
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🙂
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This is beautiful 💛❤️💛
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Thank you so, so much!
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What a beautiful heartwarming post. Your daughters obviously have a strong supportive proud mother. They’re lucky women. And what a gorgeous and meaningful gift. Love it.
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Thanks so much Miriam. Your comment really made me smile. Thank you for your very kind words! xx
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My absolute pleasure Jenny. Hope you’re having a lovely weekend.
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Reblogged this on Dream Big, Dream Often and commented:
This is Peace From Panic!!
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Thank you! 🙂
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🙂
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Great post!
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Thanks so much!
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You’re welcome!
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Reblogged this on Musings and Rambling and commented:
This speaks to me and reminds me of Lulu. Too good not to share. I hope you enjoy!!
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Thank you for the reblog, I appreciate that! 🙂
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What a perfect bracelet for Talee! You are obviously proud of her and you should be! Congratulations on raising such strong young women!
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Thank you! I appreciate your kind words. Thanks for visiting my blog. I was just looking at yours, and it’s great to connect with you!
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Thank you!
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What a beautiful message and post. I’m sure your influence was a huge inspiration in their growth. Glad you have also shared that inspiration/message with us!
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Aw… Thanks for reading, and for your very sweet words! I appreciate it 🙂
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A beautiful post and lovely inspiration!
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Thank you Lynn💜
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Oh my goodness..this made me tear up. ❤
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Aww… I’m glad it touched you. Thank you so much 🙂
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Great quote….buy 3!!!
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I did!☺️
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