Make It Happen

be proud this year

I’m just now winding down from the hustle and bustle of the holidays. It was great, with lots of wonderful time spent with family and friends, tons of delicious food, and so much joy.

As I wrote that — so much joy — my thoughts went to the families of the mass shooting victims killed in a country bar in my city. And those who lost their homes in the fires here. My heart aches for them, and for so many others in this world, who did not have a joyful Christmas season.

There were countless times I thought about them over the past month. It felt like it grounded me, a painful reminder of what truly is important in life.

It’s been a rough beginning to the new year. My husband came down with the flu on New Year’s Eve and it’s totally knocked him out. We’re hopeful he’ll feel better this week.

With the beginning of the new year, I’m (somewhat) refreshed and ready to tackle new projects and opportunities. Even though I don’t make New Year’s resolutions — instead, I make goals throughout the year — it’s a perfect time to reflect on what I want to continue doing and what I want to improve on.

I’m focusing on being more mindful, soaking in and cherishing all the good times and difficult times too. To really be present and savor each precious moment. And, even if it’s on a small scale, I want to make a difference in this world. Practice and use the gifts I have and share them with others. This may mean as a wife, mother, friend, or mental health advocate.

I want to make things happen.

you have the power

For instance, instead of saying to a friend, “One day we should get together/have lunch/coffee/go for a hike, a movie/etc.,” I want to initiate it, take action and DO it. Not just leave it at “we should.

Last year, I started to work on that very thing — to make an honest effort to connect more with family and friends.

My parents live close by and I see them often. My husband and I have them over for dinner most Sunday nights, and I treasure our conversations and laughter. My mom is 82 and my dad is 90.

I don’t want to regret not doing something with them that I’ve been wanting to do. I’m happy to say I took action on one of those things this past holiday season.

My dad’s mom was Polish. One of my favorite childhood memories is eating her cookies that my sisters and I called “twisters.” They’re light and airy, sprinkled with powdered sugar. The real name for them is Kruschicki. They’re also called Bow Tie Cookies or Angel Wings.

For at least the past ten years, I’ve thought of making Kruschicki at Christmastime. I wanted my dad to have another taste of his mother’s cooking and I yearned to bring a lost family tradition back to life. But I was intimidated.

I love to bake, but couldn’t imagine how Grandma made them, it always seemed complicated to me. Heck, I didn’t even remember what they were called. I only knew them by “twisters.” Grandma made her own dough, cut each cookie into a fancy shape, and fried them. It made me nervous to think about duplicating such a delicate dessert.

Until this past year. I finally did it!

It wasn’t that easy. I threw out the first batch because they were too dense. I had to go back to the store for more ingredients and watch a YouTube video to learn what I did wrong (worked the dough too much).

I worried I wouldn’t get it right. More than anything, I wanted my twisters to taste like Grandma’s. I’d settle for pretty close.

I turned the dough like the video instructed, cut and “tied” the cookies, fried them, and topped them off with a dusting of powdered sugar.

My persistence paid off.

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I’ll never forget the smile on my dad’s face when he walked in and saw the platter of special treats. He couldn’t believe it. It made me so happy to see him so happy.

The verdict from Dad? Delicious. And almost as good as Grandma’s!

When my husband and I walked my parents out to their car, Dad thanked me again for making the Kruschicki. My 90-year-old father said, “Tasting those made me feel like a little boy again.”

Wow. His sweet comment made me feel incredible. I realized I had just given him the best gift I ever could have.

So that’s what I’m striving for this year. To not wait for someday. Make things happen.

Today.

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17 thoughts on “Make It Happen

  1. I love this post for several reasons. It’s heartwarming. It reminds me of the things that matter – being fully present in the present and savouring every moment and truly, we should stop living with the ‘we should intentions’ we just have ‘to go ahead and do.’

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  2. What a wonderful post Jenny. I can just imagine the joy and satisfaction that would have given both your dad and you. Hope your husband is better soon and the year ahead is happy, healthy and fulfilling. By the way, I think you DO make a difference! Bug hugs, love and light to you from me downunder xx 🙂💕

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  3. A lovely post, thank you! I was thrilled to see those Polish deep-fried cookies, just like the ones my (originally) Polish mother used to make on special occasions when I was a child. As I read about your adventure making them, I was thinking ” I’ve got my Mum’s recipe for those, maybe you would like it?” But it looks like you had success in the end with your own recipe! Well done! Yum yum! Happy New Year!

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    • Thanks for your nice comment! And so happy to hear your mom used to make them too. Most people I know haven’t ever tasted (or heard of) those cookies. Thanks for thinking of giving me her recipe, that’s so sweet! Thankfully, I did have success in the end, it’s just something I had to get the hang of. My dad said he’s sure he has my Grandma’s recipe somewhere, and he’s looking for it. Thanks again, and Happy New Year to you, too!! xox

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  4. Your post just made my day. The part about your dad was so moving! There is no greater joy than to see our loved ones happy especially at Christmas time. I also congratulate you on getting the Kruschicki done so well. Looks like there is more work to them than meets the eye:)

    All the best and Happy New Year
    Laureen

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