My daughters are in their early twenties, so I rarely get a chance to share when they say something funny or do something cute. Like when Talee was about four, and we were eating cheeseburgers with sesame seed buns. She looked at me with a serious expression and asked, “Mommy? If we plant these seeds, will they grow a hamburger?”
This past Saturday I got a call from Mackenzie. “Mom, I got a flat tire! What do I do? I need to meet my friends for brunch in half an hour!” Mackenzie is twenty three, and moved out to the city almost two years ago. She’s really independent, but I have to remind myself she’s still learning how to live on her own.
She was safe, on the side of the busy road. I told her to call AAA (American Automobile Association), and gave her the card number (she left it in her bedroom, never dreaming she’d ever need it). They were there in forty five minutes, and put on the spare.
Mackenzie got home and texted my husband, thanking us for our help. Here’s part of the conversation (retold with her permission):
My husband: Later you can get me the name of your tire and the measurement so I can help you find one.
Mackenzie: Thanks Dad, you’re the best. I’ll look around for a ruler later today or go buy one tomorrow.
My husband: Sweetie, you do not need a ruler. On the side of the tire, it’ll say the size, something like 235/45/17. And the name of the tire brand. Hehe.
I laughed so hard when I read that, I almost cried. It actually makes total sense that she thought she needed a ruler. How else would you measure it? Lesson learned.
Yesterday my husband was out running errands and called me. “I think Mackenzie gave us bad luck.”
“What?” Oh no. You’ve got to be kidding. “You got a flat tire?”
“Yep. AAA is on their way.”
I better go find the ruler.
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Image courtesy of: http://www.prestmanservice.com/make-em-go-straight/fixing-pesky-flat-tire/
This is a first hand example, of our children always need us, and kids will be kids!!
Hope you have no more flats…
Brooke
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You’re absolutely right, Brooke! They will always need us. And thanks. We’re getting the new tire today, and I don’t want any more flats for a long time! 🙂
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Such a cute story! Especially because it all turned out ok in the end. For the first several years after I moved out on my own, I still called my parents for help with just about every new life hurdle I never navigated on my own before, like when the toilet in our NYC apartment was backed up and none of my roommates nor I knew how to use a plunger! For several days we would wait until we got into work to go to the bathroom until finally we were so desperate to pee that we had to just TRY something! With plunger in hand, I called my dad, who, of course, laughed. How do you instruct three 22-year-olds on the techniques of toilet plunging over the phone? There are many more stories like that, and they were all valuable experiences through which I learned and grew, finding my footing as an independent adult. Each mishap helped me gain confidence that I could handle the next thing to go awry. Ten years and three cities later, I think I’m doing ok, but I still call my parents for advice ever now and then. You will always be “mom” and “dad” to your daughters!
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Hi Lulu, your story is hilarious! Made me laugh 🙂 I can just see you and your friends trying to figure out the plunger. And so funny that you waited to use the bathroom until you got to work! What you said reminds me of my daughters so much, as they’re early 20s and muddling through, figuring out life. It’s a pleasure to be there to help, and to watch as they mature. Thanks Lulu!
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Love it…she needs to get a ruler for Christmas….LOL
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Yes! LOL 🙂
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perhaps one of those colorful plastic ones….LOL I love it….when I was 16 I was still under the impression that all cows that had horns were male…LOL I thought my dad and mom were going to choke they laughed so hard….the couldn’t figure out how I missed that one since we had ranchers in the family…LOL
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Oh that is funny! And that you had ranchers in the family! Thanks for making me smile 😀
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anytime…we were all young once…LOL
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Great story. It brought a smile to my face 🙂
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Thank you! 😊
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I ❤ this. I miss those hilarious moments that you could share without embarrassing your child. My son is almost 20 and he still says things crack me up but out of respect for him, I don't share. But i do still crack up. 🙂
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I know, I miss that too, when they were much younger. I think it’s good (and fun) that we can still laugh at things our big kids say and do (even though we can’t mention most of it). 🙂
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So true. 🙂
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This made me chuckle. 😀
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Hehe, I’m glad 🙂
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Hey Jenny thanks for that funny story!
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My pleasure! 🤗
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Hey, you don’t know until you know! We went through something similar when TV shopping – “someone” in this house didn’t know that the measurement was on the diagonal… 🙂
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So true! And oh, that’s a good one! I found that out just a few years ago 😉 I still don’t get why tvs are measured that way!
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That is hilarious! Our kids are the same age. Don’t you wish we had blogs when they were young? Imagine the stories. Ha!
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Yes!! I often wish that. I would’ve had so many funny and touching stories! 😊
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It was indeed funny 😀 And I must admit I did not know them as well 😛 I am in my mid-20s and hope that I can be excused 😀 *hanging head down*
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Haha, yes you’re excused! There’s so much to learn about in life, it takes time 🙂 Well, there are always things to learn, no matter what our age! 🤗
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Haha! Good story!
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Thank you Tamara! 🙂
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What a great story! Thanks for the vision of what’s to come for me, since my kids are all just teens…! 😀
Great blog!
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Thank you so much! I’m really glad you visited, thanks for the follow. And yes, as they get older, still lots of great stories to tell 🙂 Take care, Jenny
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Hehehehe… I better go get a ruler too to measure our tires, just in case 😉
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Haha! Good idea! 😊
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