When I watch the Rose Bowl on Monday (Penn State vs. USC), I’m going to keep my eye out for number 99 on Penn State. Joey Julius, a kicker, is a big guy, at 5’10” and 271 pounds. But it’s not just his size that makes him big. People who don’t even follow football admire and look up to him.
During the spring and summer of 2016, he wasn’t at practice. Instead, the 21-year-old was spending time at a treatment center improving his health. After he left, he told his Mom he wasn’t being true to himself. No one knew about his real fight.
In October, Joey decided to divulge his secret on Facebook. He has binge eating disorder, depression, and anxiety.
It’s hard to be vulnerable and admit you have a problem that you’ve hid for years, especially when in the public eye. But once it’s out in the open, it’s somehow easier to deal with. I know because I did that with my anxiety and panic attacks. When I talk about mental health and mental illness, I realize how many people it affects. I’m not alone.
“The Facebook post was very scary,” Joey said. “It took me a while to do it, but my path to recovery has to do with me being honest about who I am, and this is who I am.”
Good for him. Bravo, Joey. Because you spoke out, there are people reaching out for help. They know they aren’t alone.
Happy New Year! I wish all of you a new year filled with health, love, and happiness.
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Awesome story! Happy New Year Jenny! I hope you are doing well xo
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Thank you Traci! I’m doing well, thanks… hope you are too. Happy New Year! 😊
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Ups and downs, but for the most part pretty good thanks!
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That’s good. Hope the new year brings many more ups than downs for you! 🤗
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I’m in tears over here. Hits very close to home. Wishing the same resolve for my loved one. I truly believe “The truth shall set you free”. What a shining example to others.
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I’m sorry your loved one is struggling. I agree, “the truth shall set you free.” That short phrase is so powerful. Thank you for your comment.
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She could be #99 except for the fame. Compulsive over eating, depression and anxiety. I wish I knew what facility he went to. It’s so hard to find good places for treatment. So even if she did want help, she’d be hard pressed to find it.
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He went to the McCallum Place. I just googled it, it’s in Missouri and Kansas. If not near her area, maybe they can suggest a place closer. Best to her, and you as well. She’s blessed that you are concerned and trying to help. Not easy for all affected.
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Thank you for those details. I’ll google it now too.
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There are multiple resources for finding treatment for eating disorders. NEDA is one great source of info, including info on treatment centers nationwide. https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/find-treatment/treatment-and-support-groups
Another resource is the Recovery Warriors ConnectED treatment locator.
https://recoverywarriors.com/eating-disorder-treatment-and-support/
Wishing you and your loved one the best.
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Thank you for providing this great info, Lulu. I’m sure it will be very helpful! I always appreciate your insight and comments. Hope you’re doing well!
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Great post!
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Thank you! 🙂
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Is Peyton Manning playing?
Obviously I follow college ball lol. Go Vols? 😉🙃
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Haha! 😂
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😉
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Wonderful post! 🌹
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Thank you!😊
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When a work colleague (who doesn’t know about my own personal history of binge eating disorder and depression) showed me this FB post awhile back, I was deeply humbled. Even though this colleague and I are co-chairing a panel on eating disorders at a medical conference in May, I haven’t told him anything about my personal history. I’d love to be in a place where I feel secure enough that I don’t worry about fully disclosing to all of my co-workers, but I’m not there yet. I still worry about the potential career repercussions.
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I can understand you being hesitant to tell your coworkers. Give it time, you should only divulge that personal information when you’re ready to. I’m glad you’re familiar with this story. He’s inspiring! So are you 🙂
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Jenny, you are so kind! You know that your advocacy and outreach is an inspiration to me (and, no doubt, to many others). Take care!
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Thank you Lulu! 🙂 That means so much to me. Have a wonderful weekend!
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Thanks, Jenny! You too!
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Reblogged this on Dream Big, Dream Often and commented:
Great story on Peace From Panic!
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Thank you!🤗
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You are so welcome! 🙂
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My son, daughter-in-law and niece also deal with these issues. So it’s great to see an open, honest, real discussion. Thanks!
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Thank you! I’m sorry that your loved ones have to deal with these issues. I appreciate your nice comment and for sharing.
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I think the reason we blog is to help one another to find victory!
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Agreed! 🙂
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What a fantastic story. I didn’t know this and I am inspired by this young man’s courage. Thank you for sharing.
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My pleasure. I also was inspired by him. Thank you! 🙂
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I watched the game and didn’t know this. Men are often forgotten in the world of eating disorders. Kudos to him.
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I agree with that. Thanks for visiting! 🙂
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