Several weeks ago, I read something on a blog that has stuck with me. I think of it every single day. It’s these five simple words:
What you focus on grows.
And the blogger? The beautiful Miriam, of Out an’ About. She’s so lovely! I connected with her soon after I started my blog. Miriam lives in Australia and is an inspirational travel writer and photographer. Every time I read one of her posts, I’m filled with positivity and motivation. (She has no idea I’m writing this!)
Anyway, those words — what you focus on grows — are appropriate in my life right now.
Lately, I feel like I’m being pulled in different directions — a major renovation project for our business, various deadlines including taxes, etc. All of which are urgent matters and must take precedence over “fun/personal/do-what-I-want-to-do-things.”
I’ve had to switch my priorities. But I know it’s temporary. Like they say, “This too shall pass.”
Soon I’ll be able to move on and do what I love (blog and write, read for pleasure, take extra-long walks, work on my self-care routine, etc.)
I’ve realized that no matter what task I’m faced with — whether I’m excited about it or not — when I focus on it, it grows. In return, I’m filled with a sense of accomplishment and pride in a job well done.
Goals and dreams don’t magically happen. It takes hard work and discipline. We must put effort and energy into what we want in this world.
It pays to be persistent.
This isn’t merely about checking items off the to-do list. It’s also choosing how to live our lives. Miriam says it beautifully:
“We can choose to focus on what is good in our world or we can hold on to worries so tightly that they consume us. Let them go and things tend to unfold naturally. Focus on the positives and life will be better.”
It felt great to sit at my computer and write a blog post again, it’s been a while. But now I need to switch gears and focus on making dinner for my husband.
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Absolutely love this post Jenny! Every word speaks truth. Thank you.
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Thanks so much! Hope you’re doing well💖
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I was doing really well. Little setback with a bad head/chest cold that seems to make the head feel odd again. Oh well….this shall pass too!
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Yes it will, and hopefully very soon! My husband and I both had that head and chest cold, and it took a few weeks to go away. Hope you’re feeling better soon!
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Never let a stumble on the road be the end of the journey. – love this. Thanks!
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Glad you like it! Thanks for reading 🙂
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Hi Jenny, what a lovely surprise on my Tuesday here, I’m so very touched at the mention. Thank you for your kind words. So much truth here in your own words and a timely reminder for me too. ‘Goals and dreams don’t magically happen. …” It takes effort and energy, ain’t that the truth! Warmest wishes to you my friend in achieving all your goals. . xx
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Thank you Miriam, that means a lot! I’m glad I could give you a nice surprise 🙂 I literally have been thinking of this every day since I read your post. It’s a great reminder to concentrate on what I need/want to happen, and that the little steps (that may be frustrating) will get me to my end goal. Hope you’re doing well. Have a wonderful week! xx
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So very true Jenny. It’s those little baby steps that keep us moving forward. Have a great week yourself. xx 😊
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Thank you! 🙂
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A wonderful post! ❤
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Thank you so much! xx
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🙂 🙂
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Thanks for the encouragement!
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It’s my pleasure! Thanks for reading 🙂
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so true
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Yes☺️
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Ah, so well said by you! ❤
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Thank you!! xo
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Such a great article Jenny. It reminded me of a quote I once heard, from the german Journalist Robert Lembke: “Mit etwas Geschick kann man sich aus den Steinen, die einem in den Weg gelegt werden, eine Treppe bauen.” which translates into: “With some skill you can turn every rock thrown in your way into a stair to the next opportunity.”
All the best
Laureen
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Oh, I love that quote! I’ve never heard it before. So true and so profound. Thanks for sharing that, Laureen!
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👍👍👍inspiring, and adds value
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Thank you!😊
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Yes!!!
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💖😊💖
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One can never hear this reminder too many times! So thank you. You are so right…it’s easy to fall into the trap of depression, sadness, melancholy, etc. which is fine sometimes but, we don’t want that to be our constant focus in life. (:
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Absolutely! Thank you for reading and the kind words🌷
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Really inspirational stuff, thanks for posting!
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Thank you so much, glad you liked it!
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I love this! It kind of reminds me why I make seasonal bucket lists, because those things will make me happy if I accomplish them so it’s best to focus on them and not worry about the rest
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Thank you! I love how you call them seasonal bucket lists, that’s a great way to put it, and it’s what I like to do too 🙂
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